My Slow Parenting Approach

Slow/soft parenting(also called simplicity parenting). I know you’re probably thinking—easier said than done. It’s really not that hard when you’re intentional about slow parenting. Challenge yourself to just be. Be in the moment, not running or rushing to the next thing, just be. This way, we all have downtown to rest, relax and reflect on our day-to-day. You’ll realize just how often you’re constantly rushing, calling the kids, or moving with a sense of urgency. My whole thing lately has been to just slow down. Take my time. Enjoy little moments. Have our space calm and relaxed. It’s important to me that I am intentional about making space for family time. The kids remember these things as they get older. My goal is not just to create these moments, but to enjoy them, fully.

HOW TO BE INTENTIONAL WHEN IT COMES TO SOFT PARENTING:

Instead of tidying up the house +kids room, putting clothes in the washer, checking emails, etc—sit and eat lunch with the kids while they’re eating.

Instead of rushing to bathe and grabbing the kids night clothes while they’re in the bath—sit and watch them play.

Instead of catching up on work +emails during the kids screen time—watch with them.

Instead of planning a full day out—don’t plan anything at all. I find that some of our best days are days spent at home, doing nothing at all.

SOMETHING TO KEEP IN MIND:

Slow parenting looks different for every family. Going for a walk or bike ride, cooking and eating dinner together, scheduling a day to go to the movie theater together, etc. The goal is to set time out to just be, exploring the world on your own terms.